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Thanks for this video! My son is 27 years old and he is an unadulterated AS$H0LE! I know it’s my fault. I did the many things you talked about and worse. The main problem is I tried to protect and shield him from hardship and disappointment. My sisters and I weren’t treated very well when we were younger and I wanted to make sure my son never had to deal with the problems I had. BIG MISTAKE! He lives with me but I pay all the bills and only have to ask for help occasionally. In the recent past I needed help paying utility bills and he would agree to pay but nothing is set in stone where it’s his responsibility. I don’t make him pay money because I wanted to give him the chance to save money. My parents did the exact opposite for my sisters and I. I was never allowed to live with my parents and save money like that. Our parents didn’t do much for us financially when we were in our early teens. At that time they were responsible for us but we were always on our own. No support except food, shelter and maybe some new clothes. We loved our parents but were determined to not let our children go through the same thing. I’m in a jam right now with my son. He gets on my nerves and I want him out of my house. I made a mistake making him believe he was the center of my world. I love him but I’m afraid of losing my temper with this young man. 😡

this video is criminally underviewed

3 years this is my first day please pray for me

Lol

Beautiful lake, right up until a 100 wake boarding boats hit the water with stereos blaring.

I plan to live end up in the peace Some of my child hood memories were there. They run deep for the good.

If only I knew how easy it would be, it’s been over 2 years and I don’t have any cravings at all, for me the key difference was that I didn’t suffer withdrawal, not even within the first 30 days after go’ogling and following Steffon Barkload’s and quitting because I just wanted to.

Jay I'd love to hear how you're doing...you're content is awesome...please post again

How to raise narcissist behavior

I have terrible parents.

You’re right, it's a fact that quitting booze not only makes your world a better place to be in, good things start to “magically” happen and the energy is insane! Steffon Barkload's Quit Drinking Forever, that’s the best shortcut I go’ogled that took less than a week to work without suffering withdrawal.

So many programs out there that promise you'll quit drinking from one day to the next and feel great for the rest of your life. Listen, Steffon Barkload's Quit Drinking Forever takes a lighter, safer approach which you decide to go with at your own pace. Best shortcut I go’ogled that only took days to rewire my brain to continually experience mental peace.

I clicked on your 7 days booze free vid and had to see if you’d still remained sober. Super awesome to see that’s the case. You speak a lot of sense dude. Cheers for the vids. I’ve read so much sobriety articles, books, listened to podcasts and it helps transform your perception of booze and remove its glamourous fake image. Life is so much bigger without it.

2qy many texts to respond to lol

Love the comments. Hope you have some inspiration. I'm struggling. I'm fucking lost. Thanks. I digress, I don't comment on anything, for the most part. Good job 😊

Alot of people are born into terrifying issues. Insurmountable. Zero respect for life . Demons control. Thats one thing imo all people have. Demons. Sobriety is a work in progress. PPE REQUIRED LOL. whos showing up for work? 🤚🏻

God bless ya dude and thank you for your honesty ❤🙏👏👏👏👏👏

Thanks for sharing and for the reminder about JP's program. It sounds worthy of checking out. Go easy on yourself dude, perfection is unattiainable.

Alcohol doesn’t have anything good it doesn’t even have a good taste 😝

Thank you for your honesty...I hope I can do it too...

60 years old lost everything. I'm fucking lost. They say reach out for help...its not there

Thank you! This is exactly the point: alcohol has brought ZERO value to my life.

Difficult to do this on your own, but I got this, thanks again...

Thank you, salute....

Hello Jay. I just found you and am glad I did. You sound as if you had the same struggles I am having. The biggest difference is it is 4years later (2023) and our World is even more fucked up. I have a 7 yo granddaughter who is the light of my life. It pisses me off the world she is growing up in and where it will be in 10 years (if Trump et al) aren't at least in prison. BUT I must stop drinking. Can't fix the World, only me. Thank you.

You’re Only Supposed to be Vulnerable With God . Thank you Sir .

How's it going man?

So you're sober, but haven't drank any alcohol. "Then you're a dry drunk" Don't worry me too.

My hometown! No matter where I live, Kal Lake will always be my favourite lake. I miss it.

Once a great city. Now ruined by foreign investors.

Because of idiots like you, the area has been flooded with parasites, and is no longer liveable. Just have to get views though, no thought of the consequences.

I’ve watched so many videos about drinking and people quitting and this is seriously the BEST video I’ve come across!! I feel so fkn heard and seen. Thank you!!

I think this is how my grandparents raised my parents

Good on you. I think you have the right attitude. I woke up and thought "I think I'll just give ths drinking a break for a while, not stopping permanently ,just a break" That BREAK has so far lasted 12 years with no desire to start again

Almost 3.5 years since you made this - Whoa nellie has Jordan Petersen changed. Do you still find value in his thinking? I used to but then realized what a hypocrite he turned out to be and moved on. Curious if you're still a fan of his.

Interesting about your sister. It really is genetic huh

I've suffered from social anxiety for a long time and always used alcohol as a coping mechanism. This would always result in me becoming soo drunk that the people I was out with would walk away and I would always go home angry and upset my girlfriend and daughter. It's got to a point where my partner has had enough. It's either my family or alcohol, and I choose my family. Fri December 2nd 2022 was the day I had my last drink. One day at a time . Thank you for sharing your story

Much better book's about fighting alcohol than Jordan Petersons book

Much appreciation for you Jay...this was the most inspiring altruistic video on this subject...You described me absolutely in each word...I don't know why I am only seeing it now 11/2022 ? , No matter, when the student is ready, the teacher appears...Many blessing to you and your family...Thank you

Me too

My story completely, yeah I’m struggling I’m honest about alcohol

❤loved it brother

I’m struggling with this your nailing it for me. Please contact me if you can. I’d appreciate that.

It's a tragic situation... look into Dr Petterson on alcohol issues... you will be amazed

Dude, I am at 180 days booze-free. I hit that wall too, and I have recognized the good. Your message is clear and concise. Thank you for being raw and genuine. I keep telling myself when I think I am ready to jump back into the bottle, I tell myself, "This is NOT the best time." Accept only the best because you deserve it. Thank you!!

I’m done with alcohol.

Just saw this, loneliness was always the trigger for me. Well said good Sir!!

My kid is almost thirty came back home doesnt want to leave. Tried so hard everything failes help ne algorythim

How many times do you have to be hangover to realize this is fnkg stupid? Man that one got me, for me it was about 15 years of hang overs. Been sober now for 51 days and planning to go all in, no going back.

Couple month inpatient rehab, 1 to 2 month outpatient, everyday talking about not drinking, keep relapsing. Stressful thinking about not drinking.